Post by jill on Jan 24, 2009 20:44:01 GMT -5
We invited to the meeting her OT Specialist that we private pay. They cut her down to consult when she does need more so he came along to voice his professional opinion. Well the OT person for the school over a year ago I gave her his name and number so they can coordinate services as a team and shared with her a suggestion our guy told us. She in turn called him up real sarcastically and began yelling at him how dare he give us suggestions and flaked out on him and he told her lady I am private pay I am doing what I am paid for and i do not have to talk to you. now you got the history.
At the meeting you can see clearly she did not like him there and as the meeting progressed and everybody did their thing our guy Mr. Alterio (his name) spoke up and did his thing and commented on how many of the concerns are on OT issues but OT is not being offered and how they are doing the PT thing more when OT is more important. He suggested PT 1x per week versus 2 and add an OT day. Well the school one said the consult works and got a little huffy and sniped at our guy which he then was polite and told her off in a nice way. He never said she was not doing her job and was very polite and did snipe back after awhile for she got hostile towards him. The Chairperson and all else in the room all our faces were in shock she was totally out of line and was defensive. He only offered an opinion and shared his work he is doing with Annette. Then when she directed something at me for they were not doing eye contact with one another I felt so awkward and on the spot. He really advocated for my girl and the more he got what he wanted for her the more mad the school one got the friction in the room kept growing. End result my girl is getting the service she needs and I did say to all there that our guy is part of the team and has worked wonders for Annette. The Chairperson stated how much progress my girl made and I added due to the extra we are doing with our guy.
I am considering calling the CSE Monday to apologize for the friction that occurred and the others present and the witch too to calm her down. I think she feels threatened by our guy why she lashes out at him. Part of me feels I do not need to and the other part wants to make peace. My OT person however was nothing but polite and did nothing wrong even when he was under attack.
At the meeting you can see clearly she did not like him there and as the meeting progressed and everybody did their thing our guy Mr. Alterio (his name) spoke up and did his thing and commented on how many of the concerns are on OT issues but OT is not being offered and how they are doing the PT thing more when OT is more important. He suggested PT 1x per week versus 2 and add an OT day. Well the school one said the consult works and got a little huffy and sniped at our guy which he then was polite and told her off in a nice way. He never said she was not doing her job and was very polite and did snipe back after awhile for she got hostile towards him. The Chairperson and all else in the room all our faces were in shock she was totally out of line and was defensive. He only offered an opinion and shared his work he is doing with Annette. Then when she directed something at me for they were not doing eye contact with one another I felt so awkward and on the spot. He really advocated for my girl and the more he got what he wanted for her the more mad the school one got the friction in the room kept growing. End result my girl is getting the service she needs and I did say to all there that our guy is part of the team and has worked wonders for Annette. The Chairperson stated how much progress my girl made and I added due to the extra we are doing with our guy.
I am considering calling the CSE Monday to apologize for the friction that occurred and the others present and the witch too to calm her down. I think she feels threatened by our guy why she lashes out at him. Part of me feels I do not need to and the other part wants to make peace. My OT person however was nothing but polite and did nothing wrong even when he was under attack.